Role Play to Spice up Your Sex Lives

Ever watched one of those raunchy Hollywood movies where the leading guy pushes the girl against the wall to passionately kiss her and then forcefully throw her on the bed and rip off her panties as she gasps looking flushed; and thought, I’d like to have passionate sex like that? Well maybe your partner does too. Surveys show that many women fantasize of having aggressive sex.
The term ‘aggressive sex’ doesn’t mean literal aggression in the sense that you hurt or even rape your partner. It just means that your are forceful, controlling and direct, taking what you want with a smoldering mean and moody expression, in a game of role play.

Here are some tips and pointers to surprise your partner, and to help you achieve passionate aggressive movie style sex.

There is some preparation that you need to do before the event. Firstly get a shit, shower and shave. You don’t want to start role-playing and have her push you away because of bad breath or a four o’clock shadow.

You also need to map out in your head the way its gong to go. Forced up against the wall in the hall, backed up over the arm of the sofa, lifted on to the coffee table and a grand finale on the rug in front of the fire, if it lasts that long. The plan really is up to you, because you’ll be the one with full control. You do need to bear in mind however, that this type of sex is no frills, you both need to get off in the role play and not the foreplay.

Speaking of which, you’re also going to need to perform in other words a hard on. . If the mental stimulation isn’t enough maybe you could self induce before slipping into character over some wank mag..

So what sort of ‘thing’ is considered aggressive sex? You should make all your movements firm and deliberate, be forceful without causing harm; for example, forcing her against the wall and holding her there firmly with a hand holding her neck, or maybe with a fist full of her hair. Being held ‘in place’ is very sexy because you’re being completely controlled.

You need to take control of all her movements, open her legs with a free hand and force your leg between them to prevent her from closing her legs. All of your movements should be brash as though you’re pissed off, and maintain eye contact as much as possible.

Kissing and biting are really important. Kiss her deeply on the mouth forcing her to move her head back. You can kiss her skin but do not nibble or caress, hold her flesh between your teeth in a bite like pose but do not apply too much pressure so that you leave marks.

It is important to not remove too much clothing. Undo her top and lift her bra up to free her breasts, but do not remove these garments properly. This kind of role-play is about sexual need not skin to skin intimacy.

Pull panties to one side to gain access to see if your Hollywood style aggressive approach is working its magic, and exert your control by making her suck your finger afterwards. All this is symbolic of your power, your sexual prowess and your ability to penetrate her defenses. Slap her arse occasionally, that will work trust me, not too hard otherwise you might get a slap back…… across the face.

Role Play can be fun

Just before the moment of penetration you should rip off her panties unleash your manhood and hold her down whilst you penetrate her in a wild frenzy of animal like passion.

Some of the best-loved role-playing scenarios most women aren’t afraid to try out is the schoolroom fantasy!
Maybe consider suggesting to your partner that she plays the headmistress role while you can be her naughty pupil. If you can acquire some schoolboy clothing even better, and make sure you provide her with a cane or ruler she can punish you with for be a naught boy.
Or you can do the schoolboy is infatuated with his teacher role play, most school boys had a crush on at least one female teacher, I know I did.