Taken from the many comments that have been left, it is safe to say that the issues of sexuality, gender-orientation, and general points of arousal are by no means a “black and white” affair in which if you are not one, then you are the other. There are many aspects to go into what makes you the way that you are. As one of the first comments stated, you are what you feel and until you come to terms with that, you will be in a constant and never-ending state of denial. This, for the sake of saying, is a most horrible ordeal to be forced to endure. It is well studied and docum...