Answered by Amadeoinlace:
I can only state my own experience. I find the younger ladies (say – under 30) are more ready to accept men in frillies and even become enthusiastic on the subject, once they have got over the initial shock. I find a far larger percentage of ladies in the 40+ age groups are often quite resistant to the concept and some are decidedly anti and even derogatory. This I put down to the length and severity of their social conditioning.

The primary culprit for permitting this “anti-behavior” to remain so strong is the male of the species who have themselves been conditioned over the eons to blindly accept what is “natural” or “right” and what precisely constitutes a “man”. I put this down to the sickness we have allowed to permeate our societies over the ages. Whilst it is becoming largely socially acceptable to treat ‘Gays’ as “just like the rest of us” in the sense that they are human beings who merely orientate their bonding, affections and sexuality in a different direction to heterosexuals – the wearing of frilly lingerie is still a rather new concept outside of the gay scene. The typical belief is that such behaviour indicates either gender disfunction or homosexual inclinations. As many of us here know, that is often far from the case. I think this is a multidimensional subject that could roll on for quite a while.

If “straight” males treated the subject in a playful and light-hearted manner – perhaps donning their partners pretty panties during lovemaking and their partners saw that if anything, this not only DIDN’T result in a threat to their relationship with the male in question but also HEIGHTENED the passion and mutual enjoyment of lovemaking – female resistance would soon change to enthusiastic acceptance. After all – they simply cannot have it both ways. If we do as asked and get “in touch with our female side” (genes) and that gentler female side that DOES exist in ALL males – why be surprised if that manifests itself in wanting to feel softer in ourselves by wearing sensual lingerie against out skin?

Where is it written that “Pink is for girls and blue is for boys” ?????? If the female worships the beauty of her man’s body in the way he worships the curve of her ass, the colour of her eyes, the way she blushes, how neatly she has trimmed her girl fur, the wondrous shapes and curves and shades of pink of her sex, the way her nipples erect under his loving ministrations ……. why wouldn’t she want his beautiful manhood to be presented to her eyes, encased in silk or satin or lace – a tiny lace thong his erection throbs and fights to be free of ….. in the same way the breath catches in the back of his throat when she comes to his arms in the bedroom, dressed in tiny panties, stockings, suzzies and a see-through babydoll?

Men have been the willing underdog in our society for too long. Whilst revolution is in the air about us – let us take a bold step forward and say “This is OUR revolution – Vive la difference but honey …. if you can wear jeans I can wear panties!”
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