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Posted 10 May 2005 - 10:06 PM

well i have been talking to a guy that wants to take me while i am wearing my panties. i have been thinking about it for a while now and have decided to go through with it one more email and it's done and he's on his way. well see what happens and i'll let all you know! first sucking a guy and being screwed in my mangina all in the same day.WOW

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Posted 10 May 2005 - 10:22 PM

Good luck and I feel you may get to like it, we await your debriefing....

well you know what I mean ;)

and I love that Mangina word

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Posted 11 May 2005 - 04:08 AM

yea it is a great word aint it! well it went well, alot of sucking and even more of me taking him. he wasn't very big but he was good and he went for a good long time. i'll tell all you that it was a hell of a lot better then a dildo! honestly i can say i dont know if i would do it again but well see how i crave it as time goes on!

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Posted 11 May 2005 - 12:13 PM

Atrus96, on May 11 2005, 03:03 PM, said:

yea it is a great word aint it! well it went well, alot of sucking and even more of me taking him. he wasn't very big but he was good and he went for a good long time. i'll tell all you that it was a hell of a lot better then a dildo! honestly i can say i dont know if i would do it again but well see how i crave it as time goes on!
you should thank the lord he wasn't big if it was your first time - there is nothing worse than walking around with a sore arse for days after an ass hammering.
atrus, it doesnt matter what you do with your life from now on, you will always be remembered as the genius who coined the word mangina. You could be the guy who finds a cure for cancer, but that will always be overshadowed by your status as the guy who came up with 'mangina'.

let me tell you atrus, i dont think you will stop at just one cock up your butt. Its human nature to always want something bigger and better than the last time, especially if you enjoyed it. It wont be long before your spincter is being split up the middle by a huge fat cock, while your mouth is being fucked by some guy with gigantic balls

anyway, as you say, time will tell

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Posted 11 May 2005 - 05:09 PM

thats very true i really would like a bigger one but anyways it was an awsome feeling and i'm still thinking about it so well see what happenes but with the way i was nervous i dont know if i'll ever have the guts to do it again but maybe it'll be easyier!

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Posted 15 June 2005 - 12:03 PM

(a guy that wants to take me while i am wearing my panties.) "i have been thinking about it for a while now".... Well I have thought about it also but I am kinda scared to. I have done strapon sex with ladies doing me and I have worked a small sized dildo into my ass as I j/o but yes I have wondered what it is like to let a man fuck me. I just dont want to be with someone to big and then someone who wants to pound away at my virgin ass like he is doing a ladies pussy.
I'm really not into sucking cock as I tried it before and it did'nt turn me on but having a dildo in my ass is and has been a great feeling so maybe a real cock would be also. But then I might have two or three things against me in all this... First I am not a full crossdresser, more of a panty boy type, second I am not fem at all I am a very masc. male (all but the panty/lingerie wearing lol) and last Im kinda limited in what I will do and that seems to turn alot of guys and crossdressers or other "top or dom" panty wearing men off. They seem to be like its: all or nothing. I do enjoy wearing panties for ladies too and I'd love to find a couple to take me with a strapon and maybe real cock but you gotta start somewhere.
The thing that I believe ladies get in a way by wearing panties and lingerie is "desire". They look so hot in panties that we as men or ladies desire the sexy panties and whats in them. As a man I never felt much of desire from others until I was wearing panties and then found that I could be or become the "Object" of desire and it felt wonderful to be that... along with the fact that panties the fabric and the fit and the sight are sexy as hell on men or ladies... But I know as a guy what it feels like to "fuck" a lady wearing sexy panties and I must say I have thought about what it might be like to have a male have me in panties and fuck me. I'm just not pushy and I dont want to have a guy or lady do me unless they want to and it turns them on but I don't want to be raped (just the mind fantasy feeling sometimes of being raped).
Its hard to explain but maybe others here can understand me in this... I want to be desired and in panties and maybe have a man (anytime a dildo lady) fuck me but I want him to "take me" in fucking me, to make me feel like here I'm this srt8 male but he is a man (or cd) showing me, even in a mild way I'm forced to see what its like to have a man have sex "on" me, for him to desire me in panties and take me and use me in a way like men use ladies in sex but with caring sex. The panties have to be in all this because if I just wanted m4m sex thats out there but I want to be the one fucked not fucking and wearing panties makes me feel like I might be able to have a man desire me enough to fuck me.... Now if I can just find the right one.

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Posted 15 June 2005 - 02:07 PM

kcpantyman, on Jun 15 2005, 07:58 AM, said:

Its hard to explain but maybe others here can understand me in this... I want to be desired and in panties and maybe have a man (anytime a dildo lady) fuck me but I want him to "take me" in fucking me, to make me feel like here I'm this srt8 male but he is a man (or cd) showing me, even in a mild way I'm forced to see what its like to have a man have sex "on" me, for him to desire me in panties and take me and use me in a way like men use ladies in sex but with caring sex. The panties have to be in all this because if I just wanted m4m sex thats out there but I want to be the one fucked not fucking and wearing panties makes me feel like I might be able to have a man desire me enough to fuck me.... Now if I can just find the right one.


Well stated .. and I believe many of us "Special Panty Wearing Men" share the same desires and needs ... to be wanted and desired as the object of another's sexual desire ... Have you even considered an encounter with another Panty Wearing CDer ... this could be where you find those needs fulfilled ... Just a suggestion but you might roll it around in your sexual fantasies and see what pops up ...

A Sissy-n-Panties from KC,
Michelle Jo

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Posted 16 June 2005 - 11:24 AM

Michelle_Jo, (Have you even considered an encounter with another Panty Wearing CDer) Well sweetie if the right panty wearing cd'er comes along and wants to fuck my panty wearing booty as they are dressed, then yes I would consider it... Just seems like a mostly "bottom" "masc" panty wearing man like me dont get many real time replies from other cd'er who like or would do me that way.

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Posted 16 June 2005 - 02:09 PM

kcpantyman, on Jun 16 2005, 07:19 AM, said:

Michelle_Jo, (Have you even considered an encounter with another Panty Wearing CDer) Well sweetie if the right panty wearing cd'er comes along and wants to fuck my panty wearing booty as they are dressed, then yes I would consider it... Just seems like a mostly "bottom" "masc" panty wearing man like me dont get many real time replies from other cd'er who like or would do me that way.


I do not think I will ever get over the preoccupation people have with "Labels" ... top, bottom, masc, femme, etc ... Why can not people just be who they are and enjoy? ... Why does the encounter have to be predetermined before hand? ... just two people sharing time together and enjoying the encounter in whatever form or direction it goes ... Why do people always have to worry wither or not they will fit into the small restrictive box they put themselves in?

Yes I prefer to be treated in certain ways .. which for the most part are what others call "ultra feminine" or "submissive-sissy" but I do not restrict myself to only those kind of encounters ... if I happen to find a nice person and the relationship develops in a way that I am being more in control then them so be it as long as we both are enjoying the relationship what does it matter? Just go with the flow and let yourself grow with each new encounter .. as long as they both know they have every right to say "STOP I don't like this ..or this is making me uncomfortable" then what could be better ... new exciting experiences ... testing your old boundaries ... learning and enjoying more about yourself and your sexuality with each new friend ... Isn't that what growth is really about?

Just my opinions .. sorry if they offend or upset anyone.

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Posted 16 June 2005 - 10:50 PM

Michelle_Jo,

("Labels") This is why I love this site so much and I think our opinions are wonderful and to be respected as everyones are.
For me yes I do label myself becos who better to know and understand what I feel and who I am or wish to be. I am a very masc male and I do not have a fem body and I do not dress fully, I'm more into the lingerie part and how that makes me feel and act. Yes I do want to explore and thats whats great here is you find people that are like minded in wearing or wanting to see us wear.
But I'll ask this, is it not better to have some idea of who you are and who you wish to be around in all the different ways of us men in panties? I can chat with anyone on here about all kinda of panty things. I can meet anyone here and share alot of panty feelings or enjoy the look and ways of alot of different men in panties but I would only want to be "with" in a sexual way a certain type of male in panties, lady, strapon lady, full cd'er or male that would turn me on and just as important that I turn them on.
The only way that would cross the line to me is if you put down or mislead someone.









Just my opinions .. sorry if they offend or upset anyone.

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Posted 17 June 2005 - 05:16 AM

[quote name='kcpantyman' date='Jun 16 2005, 06:45 PM']Michelle_Jo,

("Labels") This is why I love this site so much and I think our opinions are wonderful and to be respected as everyones are.
For me yes I do label myself becos who better to know and understand what I feel and who I am or wish to be. I am a very masc male and I do not have a fem body and I do not dress fully, I'm more into the lingerie part and how that makes me feel and act. Yes I do want to explore and thats whats great here is you find people that are like minded in wearing or wanting to see us wear.
But I'll ask this, is it not better to have some idea of who you are and who you wish to be around in all the different ways of us men in panties? I can chat with anyone on here about all kinda of panty things. I can meet anyone here and share alot of panty feelings or enjoy the look and ways of alot of different men in panties but I would only want to be "with" in a sexual way a certain type of male in panties, lady, strapon lady, full cd'er or male that would turn me on and just as important that I turn them on.
The only way that would cross the line to me is if you put down or mislead someone.

Just my opinions .. sorry if they offend or upset anyone.

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Michelle Jo
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I knell corrected ... I do see your point and accept it ... you are right no one knows a person better then themselves and if using Labels allows them to express and clarify that to others then I can accept that .. still I would feel sad if those same labels limited ones exposure to other styles or categories of fun loving like minded adults. Yes we all have to be honest and true to ourselves and others so we do not mislead or pretend to be someone or something we are not ... I also agree Labels should NEVER be used to insult, put down, harm, or hurt another's identity or feelings ...

That being said ... I apologize for being so out spoken and coming across as if I was judging or attacking anyones ideas or principles ... Please forgive me and believe that was NEVER my intention.

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Posted 17 June 2005 - 07:48 PM

It's very hard to advise anyone on this subject. If truth be known this desire to be taken analy must be a fantasy for a lot men, even those who will swear till they are blue in the face that they are %100 hetro.
I wonder how many would admit to fucking a woman whilst in some fantasy trip involving a man entering the bedroom and ass fucking him whilst he's screwing the lady
Problem/confusion over sexuality arises when that fantasy takes grip and becomes a burning wish/desire.
As with agony aunts, sexual therapists it's all so easy to discuss, plot and and plan the future whilst away from the situation/problem/crisis.
Not wanting to suck cock, your sexuality ect, is just your own personal non preferences, just as mine is prefering casual sex meets with strangers.
Wanting to be ass fucked, is the same (IMHO) as wanting for instance to ass fuck a woman. It does not mean your perverted, it does not mean your gay/bi/cd or whatever it just means your exploring your own sexuality which is personal to yourself, for it's only yourself that has to live with any consequences/guilt trips unless you get found out or you choose to confess to someone or your partner.
Who to realise this fantasy with, well that's a tough one, I would suggest a Bi married guy, but also take into account as most women will second, there are men out there that just don't know how to fuck, and some that cannot last more than 2 strokes, lets just hope you get lucky.

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Posted 17 June 2005 - 08:13 PM

Michelle_Jo,
(That being said ... I apologize for being so out spoken and coming across as if I was judging or attacking anyones ideas or principles ... Please forgive me and believe that was NEVER my intention.)

Oh Michelle_Jo, No need what so ever to apologize. Your thoughts and ideas are well thougth out and respected by me. This is the true joy of a group like this to share feelings and ideas. I look forward to hearing from you more on alot fo panty topic's... Hug's, J

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Posted 17 June 2005 - 08:24 PM

Pantyholic, OMG so well said, thank you for your reply. I will say that I am at ease with myself and in my panties or others..lol Really I have alot of different fantasies that I would say I could try both with men and ladies and the common thread in all of it is Panties... I might let a married bi guy or single gay guy or just a panty wearing male or a full cd'er or a strapon lady take my panty behind, I guess it depends on my mood at the time, a couple perhaps m/m m/f f/cd cd/cd f/f hey there are so many possibilites dont you think??? I do agree with you Pantyholic that I would not enjoy a two minute lover be it a meet and greet stranger for a quicky or a longtime friend for a nite of fun. I learned for me along time ago that even in panties there are so many different types and likes and dislikes, I just happen to like a few different ways in that, some like more and some less but we all share here the common joy of panties panties panties, and aint that wonderful!!!! So I'll keep looking but if I never find the one or anyone I have had enough fun to last a lifetime, but a few more thrills would'nt be bad...lol So if anyone wants to chat or share or maybe even thrill this panty covered booty with my panties or yours whatever let me know......we will see.

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