[silkshirt]

I have never been lucky enough to have the pleasure of a woman dress me. It is a fantasy of mine to meet a woman who would like to dress me and have sex with her imagining I'm her female lover.

xx

[MickeyCD]

Another cultural disparity. Here we are, about half of the population, as men, and most of us, including me, keep out desires and fetishes cloaked. I guees part of it is our own fault as we typically determine what is and isn't socially acceptable at any one time. I find that I am kind of afraid of the rejection as it just drives me farther from others. Well, if I find that lovely woman I will share my experiences with all of you.

XXs, Mickey

[LingerieandLace]

Well said Mickey, rejection does drives a lot of us to hide our desires and fetishes .... maybe someday it will be accepted once again.

[Pantied Suzi]

I have said it before, and I'll say it again. It is my belief that there are two types of guys in the world. There are guys who love to wear panties. And there are guys who want to wear panties, but won't let themselves. There have been a few women over the years that know how my desire wearing panties. Most of them accepted it, but didn't really do anything for them.

[tiffany]

When i met my current partner a few years ago, i decided to tell her straight away and take the consequences either way.
That christmas my present was a make over at the "Boudoir" in London with photo shoot, of course i was nervous but the experience was fantastic.
I was dressed by miss Jodie Lynn, she did my make up, hair, nails etc and then in many different outfits i had my photo taken.
About 2 weeks later the photos came back to me, i was amazed some of them looked hideous but a few looked amazing including the picture which is my avatar.
To see the real Tiffany was more than i had ever anticipated, from that moment on i knew that i would never look back.
And all this was down to my fantastic partner, i feel so lucky to have someone like her.
If any of you girlz ever get the chance of a make over and photo shoot take it.

[Tinymuel2002]

I've had the pleasure of having several women dress me to one degree or another, and do make up and or hair. Guess the first time was when the most popular girls in my senior class fixed me up to be a Powder Puff Cheerleader, god was that fun, but they have no idea what they got started. Wish I could find just one of them that has a picture of that evening. What a great avatar that would be, even if it was 25+ years ago. I still look pretty much the same. Just wish I had worn pantyhose that night. A/lways said that if Willy Joe Namath couild wear them to play football in why can't I wear them

[Pantied Suzi]

I would love go to a shop and get made over for the weekend and have all kinds of pictures taken of me in various stages of dress and undress.

[pantyvpl]

Pantied Suzi, on Oct 26 2006, 09:09 PM, said:

There are guys who love to wear panties. And there are guys who want to wear panties

Pantied Suzi,

Absolutely to the point. We have the guts, will & desire to do it. (Of course the pleasure as well)

[Pantied Suzi]

Yes, it takes a real man to willingly wear a pair of panties. And admit to it.

[Jim]

howdy there pard, tie your hoss to the hitching rail and sashay your pantied covered ass in here for a mint jubilee


Hit the beach maggot! give and me twenty & I wana see elbows and pantie covered bottoms

[Michelle_Jo]

barbaralynn, on Oct 29 2006, 10:53 AM, said:

reading all of the replies to this thread makes me feel like i am the luckiest person to ever don femine clothes. i have had the priviledge to have 5 women in my life that accepted my style of dress. my wife of over 20 years has been very understanding of my desire to dress femine and allows me the priviledge to do so whenever i want. now that i can no longer work i dress in someway ever day and think nothing of doing so.

Barbara Lynn,

You may not be the luckiest person on earth ... but let me tell you ... You are on the short list ... finding one woman that is acceptable to PWM is wonderful finding 5 is fantastic!!! I have four sisters that all know and accept that this is who I am but they are not really willing to be a part of it ... and my wife is the same way ... she knows but NEVER wants to see or hear about it ... I do wear panties 24/7 and she knows that but she acts like she doesn't and she never touches me sexually if I am wearing any kind of feminine clothing ... hugs and kisses are ok but nothing more ...

My advice to you is ... NEVER let any of those women EVER forget how special they are and NEVER take them for granted ... you really are blessed ... and I am glad for your good fortune (and a little jealous too).

Give each of them a BIG hug and a sincere Thank You from all of us that wish we could say the same thing about the women in our lives. It is only by women like them sharing with other women that women everywhere will ever change their opinions and hopefully start to accept lingerie feels good to everyone.

A Sister-n-Lingerie,
Michelle Jo

[Pantied Suzi]

MJ, I agree. Finding a woman in your life that accepts her husband wearing her panties is as special as it gets. Treat it as though you were given a second chance at life. I am sorry to hear that your wife will not participate in your girlie needs. That's why we are all here for you to lean on if needed.

[pantymon]

I must be one of those lucky ones whose wife completely understands my fetish for wearing panties. I'm in my early 50's and married my wife at the age of 20. At the time I had nearly waist-length hair, and one evening after about a year of marriage my wife thought it would be fun to dress me in a pair of her panties, a lace chemise, and some nylon stockings as well as some light makeup and grooming my hair. Not only that, she decided to take some photographs of me as well. Until that time I had actually hidden the fact that I enjoyed wearing panties and simply didn't wear any while being with or around her. I think this event, however, turned her on so much that she even went to the extent of purchasing panties while letting me wear hers on occasion, too. A couple of years later she confessed to me that she had participated in a few lesbian experiences before meeting me, so I tend to agree with "Lycranlace" that bi and gay folks are much more tolerant of this sort of behavior, and I'm thankful that they are. To this day I wear panties regularly without having to worry about anything that my wife might have to say. She tends to like my satin bikini and boyshort panties above all, but, of course, I have to continue trying all types of styles. I've joked about going back to my old "tightie whities,", and she just says "nah....don't think so." On the other hand, other than all of you here, I have never told my male friends of my love for panties. For all I know some of them may be wearing panties, too, but there's always this male "macho" stereotype thing that has prevented me from doing so. However, a friend of mine did accidentally catch me wearing a pair of string bikini panties while changing in a bathroom stall one day, but he's never said a word about it. Above all, I'm just thankful that I have a wife that supports the fact that I love panties. The funny thing is, the older I get, the more I enjoy them.

[Luvyrpntys]

I've had my past 4 girlfriends know that I dress. The very first one actually brought the idea up (I had done it secretly before this). For all your married folk out there, I don't really know what to tell you about letting your loved one know.

But for you single ones or ones in a relationship but not married, from past experience, it is ALWAYS the best idea to bring the idea up casually. Test the waters. My last girlfriend, it took me almost a year to actually come out and tell her. All of them except for the first, was a bit shocked, but nowhere near being turned off by it. The way I've always seen it, is if the person truly loves me then it doesn't matter what I dress in - I'm still me underneath. All of my past girlfriends have seen me and have eagerly taken part in my dressing (usually buying me sexy panties or just having fun when we're alone).

This can back fire though, if you happen to break up. I explained one of my experiences with an ex in another thread, but, point is, I feel if a person really loves me, it doesn't matter what I dress in. It's just clothing.

[sissy_april]

Hmmmm.

My first knew, and seemed to accept, but after 10 years of marriage left me.

My current wife of 26 years, knows and acceps my dressing (more fully at home and always panties "outside"), but she does not really play, or encourage. There is a kind of silent acceptance, for that at least I am thankful. But there is still a reticence that is always a bit uneasy.

This is a very complex issue and I have always been wary of jumping to any conclusion with regards to male panty wearers and the people they tell.

I have only told one other male in person (many online of course - the one thing that kept me from believing I was an isolated abberation). I have always wanted to know other male panty wearers face to face, but have never met others, a lack I feel quite often.

April

[Kimberley]

pantymon, on Jan 3 2007, 05:05 AM, said:

so I tend to agree with "Lycranlace" that bi and gay folks are much more tolerant of this sort of behavior, and I'm thankful that they are.

I think thats absolutely right, having chatted online to numerous cross dressers a number whose wives are openly bi or at least bi curious have found easy acceptance and active joining in to the cross dresssing and I think its clear why - a woman who is bi might like to experiment with a guy dressed as a gal just as a lot of 'straight' cders will have sex with other cders but don't get attracted to or play with guys dressed as guys.

Kim