[knickerlvr]

I've got a date this weekend and I'm fairly certain that at some point in the evening, I'm going to be stripping down to my underwear ("putting on a show" were the words she used...). I think I can summon up the courage (Dutch courage, no doubt) to do this but I certainly don't want to be "observed" in my boring male underwear. This woman doesn't know of my love of panties (tho she might have an inkling, but that's another story).

Sooooooooo, I guess my choices is to go all-out and wear my favorite pink-n-black ruffled thong; and risk a negative reaction. Or I could wear my white Barely There hi-cut briefs; and take a more conservative approach. Or something in between?

Any advice on what I should do from the Pantykin community?

Yikes -- I haven't been this nervous before a date since I was a teenager!!!

TIA -- knickerlvr

[Pantyholic]

If it was me, then I would wait until I got to know the person sexually first. Thats only because I would hate to jeopardise getting intimate with this person by freaking her out.
But if I had to choose, then I would opt for the high cut, the wearing for comfort alibi might be a good defence under cross examination.

[cheddar]

Try going commando. You could always say you ran out of undies and could you try some of hers. She'll either laugh it off or offer you hers. It worked for me - she thought it was her idea and I was only doing as she suggested. That way you can't lose!!!

[J_E_F_50]

The question is do u value her more then ur panties.

[Lacyom69]

Chances are she is goimg to freek out, so I'd say the pink & black thong is out. On the other hand she may be receptive of you in panties so you want something thats a little sexy. I would go with a pink brief or better yet a french cut, that will show off some of that fine tushie.
What ever you choose I do hope you write and tell us how it went.
Good Luck.
Lacy

[bigkev]

if it was me then I would either just tell her that I am into wearing ladies panties or I would just say can I ask you something how do you feel about men wearing ladies lingerie and if she says why, then I would say well I wear them because I cant wear cotton boxers or pants so then I would gauge the reaction from her. you never know she might go for it in a very big way but then again she might not so just ask her you dont have to finnish up in the sack that same night you could wait until the next night then strip her off then let her strip you off, but just think about all her lingerie items you could try on even when she is there or not just give it your best shot and it might just work out for you.

[Pantied Suzi]

I would not start out with panties. I would start by wearing men's undies, something low and skimpy. But let her know how turned on you are by her panties. Maybe try keeping them afterwards, sniffing them in front of her etc. Slowly work into letting her know, but don't wait too long before letting her know either. Maybe after keeping her panties, try wearing them in front of her etc. If you wait too long to tell her, then she'll think you don't trust her and are hiding other things from her.

[knickerlvr]

Well, the date fizzled out VERY quickly. It turns out that she just wanted my opinions on some home-remodelling projects she is doing...

I swear, if women ever figure out how to fix shit around the house, they won't have ANY need for men!

btw, I opted for basic white satin panties. But thanks for all your advice and sugestions nonetheless.

Damn, to think that I cut off the "Maidenform" tag for nothing...

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[lonegypsy]

my approach when i met my current ex-gf (my job keeping me away from home broke us up) was i told her that i figured that the only way i could ever get into a womans panties was if i wore them myself! she laughed at that. I think she first thought i was a freak, but yet at the same time thought it was kind of kinky.
eventually we went panty shopping together

[Pantyholic]

knickerlvr, on May 16 2006, 07:19 AM, said:

Damn, to think that I cut off the "Maidenform" tag for nothing...

Well maybe next time, and dont feel annoyed about ripping those tags out

[Pantied Suzi]

Hate those damn tags myself! I usually cut mine out. Easier to tell the difference between my panties and my wife's panties. That way we don't get the matching ones mixed up. Although sometimes it is nice to "accidently" mix them up.

[Lacyom69]

Sorry to hear the date was a bust knickerlvr. You don't need the tag anyway, but if you think they are ruined you can send those ole used white satin panties my way LOL


Lacy

[Pantied Suzi]

Yeah or E-bay. I am sure that there are plenty of people out there that would bid on your worn tagless panties.