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Since last night I have been dying to tell you all this story. But, this morning it got even better.
Starting at the very beginning. Back around 10 years ago just after my wife and I got married we were working with orphaned children in a third world country for the year (Yes, it is true, we were missionaries!). I had been wearing panties off and on since high school and had never told my wife. One night a young lady from the local church was coming to pick us up to take us to a concert. We left our flat and walked down to the office to wait outside for the woman to come.
My heart was pounding sitting there with my wife. I was getting hot flashes. I blurted out to her, when I could muster the courage, that I was wearing her panties. She looked at me with a look of lust and awe and then asked which ones. I told her they were the thin, purple, satiny ones with the embroidery on the front. She grabbed my crotch... and it was very long concert.
Go forward several years and I had several pairs of panties that I wore with her knowledge. But, she never really seemed comfortable with them. Through some trials in our marriage, which never really related to the panties, I decided to give them up. I wanted her to be turned on by looking at me. Seeing me in panties just never seemed to do that for her.
So, I wore boxers at home, and panties at work. I kept a stash hidden in my office where I would get a pair to swap out with every day. Most of these I had stolen because we watch our finances very carefully together and even the $2.50 to $5 that the panties were at a thrift store would not go unnoticed. I felt very guilty about stealing panties but more guilty about that and wearing panties because she didn't know. THis has gone on for years. However, about 2 years ago or so we let go of our Christianity and the shame that went with it and have really been free-thinkers since then. Not too long ago, my wife read a book by Anne Rice called Exit to Eden. As she was reading it for a couple weeks, she would share with me both some of the beliefs about sexuality that she was letting go of and also about the various fantasies that she had never before been willing to share. Essentially, she liked pain and she liked to dominate and be dominated. We have just scratched the surface of those fantasies and have had a lot of fun, and we also went to a sex shop and bought a double headed dildo and a vibrator. It has been incredible.
So then about panties and last night. We went out on a date early in the evening, only about 6pm, having left the kids with a sitter. She had told me early on in the day that when we went she wanted to find a place somewhere on our date and make love in the back of our car. We drove for a while looking for a place and on the way she pulled off her panties in the car and I fingered her. Then we found a farm path that led out into the woods near a swampy area that seemed pretty seclued. Making love was incredible and it started the night off in a very liberating way. We did a couple other things but then ended up eating at a restaurant finally. At some point during the meal, I asked her if she had any repressed fantasies that she could tell me about. She shared some and that in itself was awesome, but then, after a minute or so, she said "what about you?" I must admit I was hoping she would ask, but I didn't really think I would be able to mention panties. I took a little while to think. She could see that I wasn't sure. She said something about how there was nothing that could change her mind about me and that she would always be there. I started to tear up. This woman is the most amazing thing in the universe! I felt so nervous so I mentioned first that I wanted to fuck her in the ass (even though we have so long been "christians" she has always loved it when I cuss). She could see that there was something else I wanted to say. She said "and..." I said, "I have never stopped wanting to wear your panties." It was a pretty long coversation about panties, my feelings of shame and her total acceptance of me. I told her that mostly I liked them because they feel good and because I think I look sexy in them. I said I could be wrong, but that is my perception. She said, "do you believe that I don't think that is true?" I said yes, she said, "I think they look sexy too?" When we walked out of the restaurant, hand in hand, I literally had pre-cum dripping down my leg (I wasn't wearing my underwear after our love making session).
This morning, after my shower, I went into our room where she still had on her white silk pajama bottoms, but no top with her breasts looking so pert and perfect. I went to her drawer and didn't find the panties I was looking for. I said to her, do you know where those white lace panties are that got stained in the wash? She said, they're in the laundry basket, did you want them? I said yes, since they're stained it wouldn't matter if I stretched them out would it? She told me she would go get them. She went to get them and handed them to me. I pulled them up my legs and with her standing there accepting what was happening, I felt the biggest rush of electricity and warmth going out to her that I had ever felt. She came over and rubbed my cock and ass. I asked if she liked them. She said yes, very much.
Later on in the morning she reached in the pocket of my jeans and rubbed the edge of the panties along my cock. It was still going on.
I am here at work and need to start working, but it is "hard" knowing I am wearing her panties, with not only her blessing but with her aura here with me encouraging me and telling me that I am okay, just the way I am. Nothing more to hold back. I am in awe and I am blessed.
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Posted 16 April 2006 - 01:52 AM
Hey leftypete,
That is a great story! Sharing that with you wife is great!! I have the support of my wife as well, and we go shopping for panties together and share what we want to see each other in. We have hole dresser full of just panties.
Well I am glad that you can share that with your wife! thats GREAT!
That is a great story! Sharing that with you wife is great!! I have the support of my wife as well, and we go shopping for panties together and share what we want to see each other in. We have hole dresser full of just panties.
Well I am glad that you can share that with your wife! thats GREAT!
KJCMAN69
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There's nothing like good food, good wine and a bad girl.
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Posted 16 April 2006 - 03:40 AM
Leftypete, I'm so happy to hear your news, you're out. It would probably be a good time to replace all your mens underwear with panties. Just be sure not to wear prettier panties than your wife wears. Start wiyh some plain colors in the style you like. Don't forget to get some pretty ones for her whenever you buy some for yourself. Good Luck, Bombi
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Posted 21 April 2006 - 04:04 PM
Follow up story:
I have been wearing panties since the morning after I told my wife last week. after returning from a business trip I began to hear this voice in my head saying that she is probably ashamed of me, that she isn't attracted to me in panties, and that I should stop. I felt sick about it. I had bought a bunch of panties and a beautiful slip from a thrift store and after we made love I showed them to her. I tried on the slip in front of her. She didn't really respond and then asked what I felt and was thinking. I felt so ashamed as I stood there and believed that she must think I look ridiculous standing there. I told her this and that I believed she would chang her mind. We had a big discussion about it and basically she told me it was my issue, not hers, that was making me feel this way. The next day, yesterday, I wanted to cry all day. I had the thought to just throw my things away and start wearing boxers again. After all, it wouldn't really matter to her and she would like me better in boxers anyway (my belief. Not her statement) When I thought this I just started to cry uncontrollably (luckily I was in my car and not at the office). I felt quite a bit better after crying for a while and letting it out.
Last nigh, as my wife and I were in foreplay, she asked if I would be comfortable putting on the slip that I bought. I said I would and put the slip on. No panties. She reached under and grabbed my cock and was surprised at how extremely hard it was. We made love with me on the bottom wearing my slip. It was amazing.
I still don't think she really cares for the panties, but then she never cared anything for men's underwear either. She says that her attraction is to me and to me confidence, not what I am wearing. This I very much appreciate but I still hear myself saying that she must not really like my panties. I just have to keep reminding myself of what she has told me and that she is okay with it. Also, I remind myself that women really don't care as much about the visual as we do. I have been the one making the issue out of it.
I love women's clothing and I love my wife!
I have been wearing panties since the morning after I told my wife last week. after returning from a business trip I began to hear this voice in my head saying that she is probably ashamed of me, that she isn't attracted to me in panties, and that I should stop. I felt sick about it. I had bought a bunch of panties and a beautiful slip from a thrift store and after we made love I showed them to her. I tried on the slip in front of her. She didn't really respond and then asked what I felt and was thinking. I felt so ashamed as I stood there and believed that she must think I look ridiculous standing there. I told her this and that I believed she would chang her mind. We had a big discussion about it and basically she told me it was my issue, not hers, that was making me feel this way. The next day, yesterday, I wanted to cry all day. I had the thought to just throw my things away and start wearing boxers again. After all, it wouldn't really matter to her and she would like me better in boxers anyway (my belief. Not her statement) When I thought this I just started to cry uncontrollably (luckily I was in my car and not at the office). I felt quite a bit better after crying for a while and letting it out.
Last nigh, as my wife and I were in foreplay, she asked if I would be comfortable putting on the slip that I bought. I said I would and put the slip on. No panties. She reached under and grabbed my cock and was surprised at how extremely hard it was. We made love with me on the bottom wearing my slip. It was amazing.
I still don't think she really cares for the panties, but then she never cared anything for men's underwear either. She says that her attraction is to me and to me confidence, not what I am wearing. This I very much appreciate but I still hear myself saying that she must not really like my panties. I just have to keep reminding myself of what she has told me and that she is okay with it. Also, I remind myself that women really don't care as much about the visual as we do. I have been the one making the issue out of it.
I love women's clothing and I love my wife!
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Posted 05 September 2006 - 06:49 AM
Hi leftypete,
Sounds to me like it is your issue. Now this is just my thinking but if she is in to domination and being dominated then a little panty play should be no problem. Just let her rub your crotch with panties on let her know how good it feels
and I'm sure she'll come around.
Lacy
Sounds to me like it is your issue. Now this is just my thinking but if she is in to domination and being dominated then a little panty play should be no problem. Just let her rub your crotch with panties on let her know how good it feels
and I'm sure she'll come around.Lacy
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Posted 08 September 2006 - 12:37 PM
Domination and submission is not far away from crossdressing and other things. Very thin line between some kinks.
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Posted 09 September 2006 - 10:38 AM
True, Suzi.
But the two are not necessarily linked, or at least are no more linked than the idea that women are "traditionally" submissive and men dominant, when the reality tends to be the opposite, at least as far as sex and preferences go.
I've always sort of imagined this had to do with fantasies often being best when they are furthest from everyday realities. The cliches being the many "powerful" execs and J. Edgar types who've paid to be dominated throughout the years.
But the two are not necessarily linked, or at least are no more linked than the idea that women are "traditionally" submissive and men dominant, when the reality tends to be the opposite, at least as far as sex and preferences go.
I've always sort of imagined this had to do with fantasies often being best when they are furthest from everyday realities. The cliches being the many "powerful" execs and J. Edgar types who've paid to be dominated throughout the years.
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