[AmadeoInLace]

Yayyyyyyyyy wetwillie and all ! And how fabulous to hear from a lady wife !

As for the ones who bemoan that their women are not only Dominant but disparaging of their man's taste in undies, it seems to me this is (as I have previously commented on) merely a sign of the TRUE gender reversal (or social engineering) going on in society today in the farcical name of "equality" !! Maybe our revolution should up the anti here ? I wonder what response WE would get to us putting our foot down with the Wincyette, neck high, tent nighties and disgustingly unattractive crap these wives wear? Maybe it's time husbands ALSO said .... "Woman ! You ever wear that stuff again and you're HISTORY!" " I didn't marry you to end up living with a frump or a tent - I married you because I fell in love with a beautiful woman!"

Now, there is ALSO a responsibility here us us men !!!!! It ALSO seems to me that an underlying problem or symptom here is a lack of confidence and self-esteem in many older females. They see their value as diminished and that is self-fulfilling. Perhaps if more men made a fuss of their lovely ladies and took more time to focus on them SOME of the time ..... whilst also being the sensuously clad male who dictates what THEY want in the relationship - this sorry state of affairs might begin to get addressed? It is MY belief that most women actually have seen through this equality crap going on and actually see the dangers of female superiority. When are men going to wake up to the fact that when a wife opinions that wareing silk or lace underwear somehow makes her mate gay or sissy (A fact clearly shown in this thread by many as being outrageously untrue) - is in and of itself a denial of his masculinity and mental castration? This form of "conditioning" is something most males seem blithly unaware of. Until the male responds with "Don't be silly love - I have as much right to feel good in what I wear as you do" and flat refuses to be put down like that - this subjugation of the male will continue.

We need to take a step back and look for the middle pathway to TRUE equalty and that includes sensuous undies that spark up a dying relationship.

Just an opinion of course - but I am well known for treading where angels fear to tread ...... even those in frillies !

(PS. Wouldn't this thread have been better positioned with the existing one on this subject?)

This post has been edited by AmadeoInLace: 07 January 2009 - 10:12 PM

[sweetcheeksbeverlyann]

i'd love to wear my wifesonly if they would fit to large for i and i know she wouldn't like it she's not to keen of my wearing of feminine things

[Pantyholic]

AmadeoInLace, on Jan 8 2009, 12:09 AM, said:

(PS. Wouldn't this thread have been better positioned with the existing one on this subject?)

I think the thread has evolved with the original post by it's own merit. Normally the posts I make in the news section rarely attract any input from members but the idea originally was they were meant for spider crawls and reading by guests as well as members. I just happen to keep adding them now and again. I never hold any belief that these Dear Jane questions are genuine anyway, I just thought the question and the answer given was a typical neutral reply, which I thought would get some reaction here....... and I think it did

[Alison]

Pantyholic, on Jan 8 2009, 10:50 PM, said:

I thought would get some reaction here....... and I think it did

Reaction? I'll give you a f*cking reaction...


oops, over-reacted again!

[ron286]

crisis2008, on Nov 1 2008, 07:34 AM, said:

I boughts some silk panties from ebay from a Chinese supplier claiming they are mens briefs - they fit the bill very nicely under trousers I must say!

I bought the same briefs and they are great, very reasonable price and fast delivery. GF likes me in them 2 but dosn't know I like to wear lacy panties as well, maybe someday.

[howlin56]

WELL DARLIN, HE;S STRAIGHT UP NOT LYIN! AND MOST WOMEN ASK FOR HONESTY IN A RELATIONSHIP. ID SAY YOURS IS A PRETTY SOLID ONE. I TO WEAR PANTIES,AND A FEW MORE ITEMS WICH MY WIFE BUYS AND SHOPS FOR ME, I WAS HONEST AND TOLD HER RIGHT FROM THE START. WERE BOTH IN OUR 50;S AND ARE STILL HAVIN ALOT OF SEX AND CLOSENESS BECAUSE OF OUR TRUTHFULLNESS WITH EACH OTHER FROM DAY ONE .SO KEEP THAT MAN ,HE WILL NEVER STRAY OR LYE, CHEAT OR LEAVE, JUST LET HIM WEAR HIS PANTIES AND SMILE!

[Pantyme]

I am very fortunate as is my wife - We both wear the same size and ALWAYS share!

[oiltasters]

I buy my own panties. Yet just this morning my wife informed me that upon finding any pink ones, or "overly feminine" ones, she is going to throw them out!

Guess I'll have to be doing my laundry on the sly, now!

[AmadeoInLace]

I guess THAT defines who wears the pants then !

[toptech]

if my wife knew about this web site she would probably ask the same question

it took her a while to get used to me wearing at first

now she seems ok with it

it's been 20 years plus

[Luvyrpntys]

Honesty is not always the best policy, especially when it comes to a topic such as this. However, I have always found that it's much easier and better in the long run to tell your S.O. up front. My current girlfriend I told her about a month into the relationship, and she has been nothing but supportive. She bought me pair for Christmas and just the other day we went panty shopping together. She loves the fact that I have such a passionate thing in my life, and that alone turns her on. Plus, she agrees with me that womens panties feel MUCH better than mens underwear.

[sissystephie]

When I was working, I wore panties to work everyday under my "uniform" of tie and jacket .... I also wore pantyhose or garter belt and stockings ... when I was sitting in a meeting, I would "play" with my garer belt "suspedenders" through my pants .... it was fun !!!

Sissy cocksucker Stephie

[MickeyCD]

Well, I guess that's one of the things that keep divorce lawyer (probably panty wearer, too) busy. My wife doesn't know and definitely doesn't approve. It's not really a "gay" thing but it does make me feel more femm and I've always loved the feeling I get from wearing panties and lingerie. Like most things, there are a lot of reasons folks do what they do. I can tell you that most women would Not find wearing mens panties all that hot. Maybe I'll switch to white cotton panties and that'll be ok.

[synur4all]

I don't know what all the hype is regarding husbands wearing panties or they being suspected of being gay.
I for one am a gay man and is married to a wonderful straight woman and I wear nothing but panties under my clothes. I know several gay men who wear panties.
I have an exciting relationship with my wife, we love and respect each other deeply. As for me being a pantie lover, the only time panties are mentioned is when it is time to purchase them. When we are out and about I may see a pair I like then we proceed to the checkout counter together. Sometimes she will surprise me with a pair or more that she bought for me while she had been out shopping by herself.

[missINknicks]

My b/f gets really turned on wearing my knickers. After about 3 years of being together, I started to notice that a few pairs of my knickers were going missing from my undies drawer and some had been disappearing from off the radiators where I had put them to dry. So one day whilst we were both at my house, I invented an excuse to just nip out on an errand, telling my fella that I was going into town to do some shopping. Driving away in the car, I parked it up just around the corner and sneaked back into the house. Just as I had expected, I found my b/f in my bedroom with my underwear drawer open and half a dozen pairs of my knickers scattered about on my bed. Pushing the bedroom door wide open I just stood there, staring at him. The look of total shock was pasted all over his face; he was so embarrassed he didn’t know where to look.
“And what the fuck, do you, think you are doing, boyo” I asked.
“Er…er…er I’ve lost a couple of t-shirts recently” was all I allowed him to stutter, before I interrupted.
“Don’t give me that bullshit, I know what you have been up to my laddo, don’t try to deny it.”
“It’s not what you think Gemma honestly.” he grovelled.
“So how long have you been routing through my panties, then. And don’t lie.” I demanded.
“Not long Sweetie.” He protested, “A couple of months, that’s all I swear.”
“OK. Shut up you slimy little worm, I know you have been stealing my knickers on a regular basis for a good while now. What I want to know is what have you been doing with them?”
“Have you been wanking-off with my undies, behind my back?”
He just nodded.
“Right then, stand up and drop your trousers, immediately my boyo.” I ordered.
He did as he was told and to my great surprise, there he stood in a pair of my white cotton bikini briefs, with an enormous hard on.
“You fucking dirty little slut” I said.
“So you get turned on wearing my knickers do you then”
“YES” he replied.
“Have you ever cum in my knickers” I questioned.
“No, I never do that. I always slip them down first, before I shoot my load.”
Pulling him towards me I sat down on the bed and began to fondle his cock through the material of my undies. First gently stroking his huge bulge and tickling his balls a little. I could feel him swelling in my panties and nervously starting to groan as I continued to rub that bit harder. Looking up at his face I said in the most sluttish voice I could,
“Well this time my little Panty-slut you are going to cum in them aren’t you?”
And with that I began to wank him off steadily.
“I’ll teach you to be wearing my knickers, you naughty little boy. Now cum in my knickers Panty-boy.”
And with that he let out a loud moan and shot wave upon wave of thick salty cum into my tight little panties.

Ever since then I always allow him to wear my knickers during sex.

Gemma

[astro]

Oh my MissINknicks, I think you should get a strap on and punish him really well. Then you could change your handle to "The bolt-on from Bolton". Anyway, thats just my two pennies worth!

[Angiemead]

me and my girlfriend share everything now! its so much more fun that before when I was still in the closet!

[Satinluver]

I dont really think it should be an issue !! When we first got married I wore cotton bikinis, now I have switched to satin or silk.
My wife says it feels so much better than cotton, and they look so much better as well. I just need to get in better shape so they
look better on me !!