[Pantyholic]

pantyluv43, on Oct 25 2008, 08:50 AM, said:

my Exwife found my stash of panties out in my shed..she then found my fone.......

You aint having much luck sunshine, and I just found out about your other membership pantyfreek666

[crisis2008]

Back to the subject - I have been married 18 years and my wife is quite happy with my interest in panties - I just love the feel too.
Not gay, nor any tendencies as far as I can see, just love the feel of silk and satin on my cock and Wife is happy about it.

BTW, I love to see women in panties too, the sheerer or silkier the better :-)

[wetwillie]

Here's something for some of the concerned wives to think about. While I've always enjoyed wearing panties, stockings, etc. I always thought it was more exciting when she would wear these items. I would love to caress her while she was wearing a soft pair of panties, suspenders and stockings, or a slip/nightgown. However, all she ever wears are tight fitting cotton panties, and heavy flannel or cotton nightgowns at home. I told her if she's not going to wear the lingerie I like then I will.

[crisis2008]

I'm with you on that one wetwillie! My silky panties are a darn site more sensuous and inviting that the one's the missus wears everyday. I was prompted to remind her of that only this morning, those black all cottons have limited life left in them :-)

Do I really have to ask a woman to dress for bed? OK not everyday, but just once in a while maybe she should take the lead on that one?

PS at last a like minded soul who likes a woman in sensuous panties just as much as he likes slipping them on himself - thought there weren't many of us in here!

Cheers!

[pantyboyblue]

Maybe we have hit on something here. While my interest in panties predates my marriage and laid dormant for many years early in marriage, it was my wife's eventual refusal/reluctance to wear these items that led to my frustartion and finally feeling, but not saying, "Well, if you won't wear them, I will." Sure I love the feel and all the kink that goes with wearing panties, but I was just as satisfied when she wore them and I could sneak and peek or feel on her. I wonder if some of us don't just have a need for someone in our life (house) to be very feminine. I wonder what percentage of us are married to women are small, lovely and very feminine.

[crisis2008]

For the record, mine is not small, but she is lovely and feminine to a point. It's just that silky panties, and other feminine lingerie is there less than I would like. Incidentally, I love to see women in suspenders, stockings and basques but have no interest in trying them on myself - something else to add to the debate :-)

Cheers fellsa (and ladies sneaking a peak but scared to say hello, just in case there are any x).

[Alison]

For the record,
My wife wore nice lingerie when we were dating, and engaged...then once married out came the battleship grey cotton items sold in "rent-a-tent".

I too always loved feminine lingerie and maybe just needed that side of my sexual fantasy life to be fulfilled. My wife discovered my panty fetish and has accepted it. We wear lingerie together sometimes for sex.
She recently bought herself nice undies, because she admitted MINE was much better looking than hers! She also snatched some of my tight size 16 panties because I really should wear size 18. And I have a much better eye for buying panties than she does! (Her words, not mine).

[crisis2008]

So there is hope Alison - love the idea that missus has bought herself some new ones now!

[starretta]

MY wife also accepts that i wear panties but she says no way when i asked can i go further and wear a bra but she asked me to wear hold ups when wearing panties i nearly came just thinking about it.

[kusanomon2460]

I have been wearing panties all my life (now over 40). My first wife found my stash and went nuts. It destroyed my marriage. After single for over a decade, and still not gay, I married again, this time sharing my love for frillies with my wife before we married. While she doesn't fully understand it, she does accept it and has bought me panties several times. However, she would prefer for me to wear less feminine styles of panties, I do buy my own and I slowly introduce more feminine styles as I don't want to totally shock her. I am not gay, have never had any interest in men whatsoever, am a very macho type guy on the outside, but I feel so much more comfortable and at ease with my self when allowed to just be myself and wear things that are pretty and feel so good.
You may be worried about your husband wearing your panties but I can assure you that if he says he is not gay, he probably isnt. You should understand that he feels the same way about wearing sexy and pretty things that you do when you wear them. It is not really that complicated, just different than the stereotypes that we as humans place on ourselves. Your husband is a man, with a strong feminine identity that he should be allowed to share with the one person he trusts the most.
Do yourself a favor and go out and buy the guy some panties and see for yourself how much better a husband he will be when allowed to just be himself. Buy him a garter belt and stockings and you will get a saint.

[oiltasters]

I'm another married panty-wearing guy. Wear my lovely panties 24/7/365, even to doctor's visits. My wife knows and accepts my panties, but prefers them to be "non-frilly" and "non-pink" and resists me wearing any of my hidden stash of bras, stockings, suspenders, and other lingerie. Like many of you, my wife has gotten more and more stodgy with her own selections over the years, now wearing only cotton panties and flannel pajamas, which is MOST disappointing to me. So, . . . I just absolutely luv when I am alone and have the freedom to enjoy all of the lovely touch and feel of my own wonderful lingerie! My collection is not just sexier, but much more plentiful than my wife's! As always, nice to hear from others with similar experiences.

Kisses, girls!
-Oiltasters-

[wetwillie]

I would like to hear a few wives thoughts on the subject, "If you won't 'em I will"

[Strops Wife]

I thought I should buy in to this topic. First of all, my apologies everyone - Strop and I have been unbelievably busy and as a result our recreational pursuits have been limited. We have always tended to enjoy this site together, because what may have started as individual fetishes for lovely lingerie became blurred when we were married and we quite frankly enjoy the subsequent erotocism of what could possibly be seen as something a little naughty.
I have been prompted to respond today because I received an email from PH, and I thought oh wow, we have been really slack. Strop is at work at the moment so today it is just me.
For those of you who don't know me, I am a happily married woman, my husband wears panties. We are both members here. I am very feminine, he is not. He doesn't have a gay bone in his body, yet he can find the sight of an erect cock in pretty panties arousing. This is because he can relate to the sensation, not because he is lusting after the cock. I hope that makes sense. Personally, I love the feel, I don't and never have worn cotton. The difference of the feel of an aroused body encased in silk, satin or lace, leaves the cotton clad jock for dead. In fact if he wasn't to wear panties, then I would insist on satin boxers 100% of the time.
We haven't taken any pics for a while, although we had a big shopping spree a couple of weeks ago, I came home with 8 new sets (my tops and bottoms MUST match) and he came home with a dozen or so new sets of panties. We tend to take our pics when we are on holidays and have some time at home together, we went away this year, Strop was concerned that the friends we stayed with would notice when I did the wash that he didn't wear underwear and I wore twice as much!
Anyway everyone I better get on with my day, Sorry I haven't commented of late, I will try to be better!
Love
Strops Wife

[crisis2008]

Hello Strops Wife - lovely to hear your comments as it strikes pretty close to mine, except that you have the fetish too. My Wife does not. She is however quite comfortable with me wearing panties as I do to bed about 50% of the time. I boughts some silk panties from ebay from a Chinese supplier claiming they are mens briefs - they fit the bill very nicely under trousers I must say!

I can totally relate to the idea that a picture of a cock in panties is nice to see as it shares the experience of silk and satin on that most sensuous part of my body. I also do not show any gay tendencies (except if you want to count the above as a gay tendency!) and am not sexually attracted to men in the flesh or out of silk/satin.

I am glad you have found time to spice up your collection - that is long overdo for my Wife and I and has inspired me to find the time in our own busy lives to do the same.

Hope you both enjoy the new sets and find time to post some pics as I would love to see Strop in them and think about your joint enjoyment!

x

This post has been edited by crisis2008: 01 November 2008 - 07:35 AM

[crisis2008]

I am delighted to report that Mrs Crisis and I shopped for some new panties for her on Sunday (yes Sunday - Heaven can wait :-)) We bought her some silks and a couple of pairs of satins - I have made my views on the faded black cottons quite clear! Also some stockings and it's the first time in living memory she has worn those delightful articles together with a black lacy suspender belt to bed for as long as I can remember!

Last night was a similar show and I proudly joined her in those blue satin panties I am wearing in the pictures. We both kept our panties on throughout and her pussy never tasted sweeter! The feel of the satin on my arse as she groped and probed was wonderful.

I'm hopeful and confident this is a new page (if not a whole new chapter) for us and I just wanted to share it with you all! Maybe soon I'll drop in the idea of her taking some pictures to share.......

Have fun!

[dick small]

For all wives out there who cannot get their heads around their husband's panty or lingerie fetish, PLEASE just go with the flow......
He will be happier and he will adore you. You will have a much better sex life if you let him incorporate his love of lingerie and he will be more attentive to your needs and will do anything you ask or "demand".
Also he will never stray when wearing panties...... Why would he when you indulge him?? and anyway what man would try it on with another woman when wearing pink frilly panties

[prevail]

Just going to add my two cents worth,
My wife wears cotten also, she has never been into wearing
any lingerie .I really think she gets hornier when I wear lingerie
to bed and thats ok, still experimenting to see what I can get
away with as far as what kind of lingerie I can wear with her .
Prevail