[veronica89]

I've worn panties for 5 years or so, on and off. I've had a steady relationship for the last 4 years, and every once in a while I question my sexuality and why I wear thongs and stuff. The last time I debated this with myself I feel I went too far and I actually got rid of my collection. But, I think I've finally come to terms with who I am and why I enjoy wearing panties so much and am definitely going to start anew. Looking forward to conversating with you all

-Veronica

[panty2002au]

Welcome to PK.

[soflduck]

Welcome, Don't beat yourself over spilt milk... many of us have done the same thing and being here at PK among others can make you feel good about your panties....

Hugs n

Sofl

[willinwa]

Hi Veronica -- welcome!
Don't worry -- you are in good company -- lots of other panty wearers here!

[biguycancun]

Welcome to PK, Veronica. I always loved that name. Tossing out your "collection" (purging) is part of the struggle for self-acceptance. You list your sexuality as bi-sexual (me too), so you obviously have accepted that part of yourself. The r rest is easy. You've got an edge over the vanilla people. Relax and enjoy yourself.

[ilovepurplepanties]

Welcome to PK. I have purged my collection several times over the years. I always kick myself when I think of all the pretty things I threw out, but biguycancun is right about it being part of the struggle for self acceptance. Since I have accepted that this is who I am, I haven't purged anything form my collection, in fact it has grown rather large! Again, welcome and i look forward to talking with you.

[Jim]

Hi V89..honey its so nice to meet you..purging is something we all go through..
I think its a gilt thing in some cases,or fear of being discovered in others.
I did it for years,you buy,buy & buy..wear when you can,and then one day a depression will hit like a flying brick,and in the trash it all went.when I was going through this,I hated myself afterwords..so much money wasted.
I now have a change that works,I have two closets,one for me Jim & one for me Geraldine..
I keep Geraldine locked & when I'm feeling down I do not go through that door..
I lean on my friends to pick me back up...
In the closet that's, just all my drag cloths,accessories,wigs,heels & other sexy stuff.
panties I keep in there own drawer in my dresser as I wear almost every day.
when Jim feels like being macho,I wear a jock..99% of the time I'm in panties.
The guilt laid on me by both myself and others almost put an end to me..I tried to off myself..pills & jack..my land lady found me passed out in my kitchen,laying in water & almost dead,some how I had hit the sink faucet and it ran over,as I passed out.
ended up in a psycho ward & on meds,therapy..a few years ago..my therapist was the person who turned me on to pk
really!!!he sat with me one afternoon and said jimmy I want to show you something & it was this site.
its gone through several renovations..PH is always running about ladder & paint in hand..but the very core is still here.
I would literally spend hours here posting & reading,working myself back into society.
now me still in therapy,and still wearing,I'm at ease in my own skin..
just me I hope you stick around & just be real.

This post has been edited by Jim: 11 April 2011 - 11:21 PM

[Pantyholic]

Jim, on 12 April 2011 - 01:16 AM, said:

my therapist was the person who turned me on to pk
really!!!he sat with me one afternoon and said jimmy I want to show you something & it was this site.

Now there's a therapist who needs therapy

[ThongTback]

Welcome to the group!!!

[veronica89]

thank you all for the warm reception!

i definitely feel welcome, and I'm sure with all of your support i'll do a lot better from now on.

i would like to thank jim especially, for sharing his story. sounds like a good idea to have a space just for veronica and one for my alter ego.

[Teri]

Hello and welcome to the site. I think you read some wonderful words from members here.

We don't judge and most of us have been where your at in some point of time. This is a great site and "Thanks" to PH for the site and the others who contribute and assist in answering questions.

I think you'll find this site will assist you and you'll make new friends. Hope to hear from you in the forums.

[emilie]

welcome to the site Veronica you'll soon feel at home here I'm sure, and I found Jim's post quite moving I'm glad you're starting to feel at ease in your own skin, thanks for sharing that.

[satinguy469]

Welcome. I think almost all of us tossed them out sometime for some reason. Sounds like the fights over, go shopping.

[jill2c]

Its all about fun n refuge here,dont swet it,relax n enjoy

[wearingthem]

Yes,I still think about it all a little,but I still like to add to my collection... and I still like to wear sometimes...which reminds me.I'm still in my pj's!Many of my thoughts and queries have been backed up or answered on this site.What a great little find it was.Even found a panty friend to play with sometimes.Just lives in another country now ...but we talked last nite.Ahhhhh Pantykin is a great little place to enjoy!!!